Some people never stray far from the boundaries in life. Others push the edges or outright break all barriers. Some just rebelliously refuse to even consider any guidelines.
In this age of individualism, why would anyone even consider a rule for life? What is a rule for life, anyway?
A Rule for Life is a collection of guidelines for living. It can also be called a Way of Life. Its purpose is to help us keep our sense of balance by intentionally addressing all aspects of life: physical, emotional, socially, spiritually, etc.
Debra K. Farrington in her book, Living Faith Day by Day, encourages us to pick a practice under each of the following areas:
1. Foundations (putting God at the center of your rule and your life)
2. Prayer (finding a prayer type and rhythm that works for you)
3. Work (approaching your work as part of your spiritual life rather than something divorced from it)
4. Study (establishing a regular practice of learning more about God)
5. Spiritual companionship (committing yourself to regular companionship and community on the journey)
6. Care of your body (taking care of yourself as a spiritual practice)
7. Reaching out (caring for others and the environment as a spiritual practice)
8. Hospitality (finding ways to be a gracious presence in the world)
Writing and living within a Rule for Life is a spiritual practice that can help lead to healthy spirituality.
Rule for living grew out of the monastic movement to help monks continue to grow spiritually while in community. The first known rules were written by Pachomius who lived in Egypt between 292 and 346 AD. Daily prayers were a foundation for his guidelines.
Perhaps the best known Rule for Life is the Rule of St. Benedict from the 6th century.
Most of us already follow some type of unspoken rules each day – we brush our teeth and wear our seatbelt in the car. I kiss my hubby good bye when he leaves each morning and he calls his mother every Sunday. I firmly believe in going on a retreat at least once a year and try to write in my journal at least twice a week. At the end of each day, I ask myself what am I most grateful for this past day?
Each of us can create our own unique Rule for Life. We can fill up an entire page with statements or we can write a simple statement of beliefs. The foundation is to consider: how can I be open to the Holy Spirit and grow closer to God?
Do you have a Rule for Life?
“Listen carefully, my son, to the master’s instruction, and attend to them with the ear of your heart” St Benedict’s Rule
Jean Wise says
Yes Bible verses can be great Rules for Life. Nothing tops: Do unto others and love God with all of your heart, etc.
Melinda is correct in simple and God-centered.
Writing your Rule for Life is a powerful experience
Very interesting and valuable way of approaching life. I think God has helped me tremendously to write my “Rules for Life” without me even being aware of it most of the time. Gradually, He worked on my heart, chipped away at stuff that needed to go and helped me keep it simple and God-centered. When we follow His rules, we always go to the head of the class, right?! ;0)
I hadn’t thought of it as my “Rules for Life,” but I have Scriptures that are like that for me. My primary passage is Colossians 3:1-2, the instruction to keep one’s heart and mind on things above where Jesus is seated by the right hand of God. I also cling to the Proverbs 31 verse: “Strength and dignity are her clothing and she smiles at the future.”