Honor. That is a word I don't hear very often anymore. Honor means to hold something with high respect and great esteem. Honor is a noun rising from the word "onur" Anglo-French for glory or renown. From the early 1300s, honor meant an act of paying respect. I'd add that when we honor something we value or hold something as sacred, precious, Respect. Value. Honor. Characteristics rarely seen in this toxic age. Respect. Value. Honor. Characteristics desperately needed. Honoring another is a spiritual practice I want to nurture within my heart, behaviors, and soul. Today I am being very vulnerable with this topic. Honoring God's story, the story of others and even our own journey is an unexplored territory for me and one I feel invited into. Here are some initial thoughts about honoring our stories. How Do We Honor God's Story? Reverence – I behold God's magnificent nature and his immeasurable grace and love. I bow in his presence. I am a mere creature in the … [Read more...]
Walking an Unclear Path – A Labyrinth Experience
Have you ever walked a labyrinth? Walking a labyrinth is a spiritual practice that I seek on retreats and to be honest, whenever I see one inviting me closer. Based on the form of a circle and the spiral, this practice is an ancient and powerful symbol of wholeness and transformation. It is found in cultures throughout the world and has been added to many retreat centers as a form of walking prayer. Some of the earliest ones were found in Greece dating back to 2500-2000 BC. The path becomes a metaphor for the spiritual journey and for life, itself. The labyrinth is not a maze. Mazes have many paths and dead ends and they evoke a very different feeling than when we walk a labyrinth. A labyrinth is a unicursal with only one path in and the same path out. Its path meanders its way to the center. Walking this path enables you to experience peace, listen deeply, and reflect on where are you in your life. Some find healing or new ways to celebrate. Occasionally nothing is … [Read more...]
Monthly Musings – What I Learned in August
August Monthly Musings Oh, summer why do you end so quickly? I do love the cooler beautiful months of September and October, but am already missing the fellowship, outsideyness, and blue skies of August. Outsideyness? Is that a word? This summer, on the good to best days, I hit the pause button as often as I can to linger on my backyard deck and breath in God's stillness. Savor this season. Writing this column each month, reflecting on the past 30 days, gathers the gifts of time into my soul. Gratefulness grows and joy rises. Time races by, but moments embraced, remain rich treasures to behold. Each month I look back at what I am discovering, learning, and exploring in life – I call these my monthly musings. Capturing these special moments gives meaning, depth, and delight to life. Let’s wake up to the wonders in the ordinary all around us. I record what I notice on the pages of my Monthly Musings Journal. You can use anything, scrapes of papers, a journal, or a … [Read more...]
The Spiritual Practice of Wonder
Wonder is one of my three W's for 2019. The spiritual practice of wonder enriched my silent retreat earlier this month. As I stilled my heart and mind, God's wonders revealed themselves more and more and soon I was surrounded by delights found in his creation. What is Wonder? According to the dictionary, this experience is “a feeling of surprise mingled with admiration, caused by something beautiful, unexpected, unfamiliar, or inexplicable.” Another way of saying this is: “rapt attention or astonishment at something awesomely mysterious or new to one’s experience.” This sensation often carries an element of surprise or seeing something new or in a fresh way. There may be hint of curiosity and joy too. Spirituality and Practice offers this insight: “Wonder begins in the senses, comes alive in the imagination, and flourishes in adoration of the Divine. It arises from our natural curiosity about the grand adventure of life.” Why Not Wonder? What stops us from this gift … [Read more...]
What is a Silent Retreat?
What is a silent retreat? I mentioned on several social media posts about the silent retreat I attended earlier in August. I was amazed at the questions about this type of spending time with God. The interest in the deepening of our relationship with our Creator is growing and I am finding more people curious about what this practice may bring to their spiritual journey. Going on retreat is an essential spiritual discipline for me. Time for silence and learning informs the mind and forms the spirit. I leave refreshed, renewed, transformed – not quite the same as I arrived. What is a Silent Retreat? Mother Teresa said, “We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature – trees, flowers, grass – grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence. We need silence to be able to touch souls.” A spiritual retreat is an opportunity to slow down to spend time with God. Leaving behind the … [Read more...]
Visio Divina – The Practice and Resources
Visio Divina deepened my time with the Lord at my recent silent retreat. This a slow contemplative prayer practice similar to Lectio Divina or sacred reading. Visio Divina is Latin for divine seeing and involves praying with art and allowing God to speak to us through the use of an image. Prayerful consideration of and interaction with a photograph in the magazine, icon, piece of art, or other visual representation invites us to experience the divine in a unique and powerful way. This is the statue from my recent retreat that brought me closer and loved deeply by God. This practice enhanced my time with the Lord as I listened with the eyes of my heart, soaking in his love and gazing at this art piece. Meeting God Through Art: Visio Divina Meeting God Through Art: Visio Divina. – A Guided Prayer Journal with Images from the Metropolitan Museum of Art is a new book by my friend. Therese Kay. This book accompanied me on my retreat and inspired me to explore various art and … [Read more...]
The Spiritual Practice of Rinse and Repeat
Rinse and Repeat. I am hearing this jargon in so many conversations lately. #rinserepeat. Trending slang. It is also called the shampoo algorithm. You know the instructions on the shampoo bottle label? The phrase is a funny reference taken from hair washing guidance and applied to any action that needs to be replicated many times in order to reach a goal or change a behavior. You could use these words for ordinary actions. Get up, go to work, come home, bed – rinse and repeat. When we face a habit, desire, or practice that is best implemented on a never-ending cycle. Or when we fight with an imperfect or resistant obstacle such a weight loss. To achieve something great, it often takes weeks, months, or years of planning and hard work. You go through phases of trial and error. You take two steps forward and one step back. You try this, you try that. You start again. You rinse and repeat. Basically, it means to do it again. Two words that also contain … [Read more...]
Monthly Musings – What I Learned in July
July Monthly Musings What? It's the end of July already? I don't know about the rest of you but sure seems like time is flying faster than ever before. I want to savor summer. Enjoy life. Taste the fresh fruits and veggies. Feel the sun on my face. Sand in my toes. Swing on my backyard swing. Spend time with friends and family. Hear water rippling in my pond. Praise God along with the chirping birds. Breathing in these types of moments pauses time momentarily and allows joy to seep deeper into my soul. What are you savoring about summer? Each month I look back at what I am discovering, learning, and exploring in life – I call these my monthly musings. Capturing these special moments gives meaning, depth, and delight to life. Let’s wake up to the wonders in the ordinary all around us. I record what I notice on the pages of my Monthly Musings Journal. You can use anything, scrapes of papers, a journal, or a calendar. Copies of my Monthly Musings Journal are … [Read more...]