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The Lost Art of a Handwritten Letter

January 29, 2013 By Jean Wise

Handwritten letter
My dad served in WWII, most of the time as a surgeon in a hospital in the Philippians. I cherish the six letters he wrote to my mom that were decorated by a recovering patient. What I treasure most though is his handwriting.
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Perhaps that is why I read in interest a blog last week, Yearning for God, about a month of letters challenge.
A month of letters began in 2012 by writer Mary Robinette Kowal. Her idea is simple – write one letter each day in February. You can read more and sign up on this website.
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Her rules are easy:

“1. In the month of February, mail at least one item through the post every day it runs. Write a postcard, a letter, send a picture, or a cutting from a newspaper, or a fabric swatch.

2.  Write back to everyone who writes to you. This can count as one of your mailed items.

3.  All you are committing to is to mail 23 items. Why 23? There are four Sundays and one US holiday. In fact, you might send more than 23 items. You might develop a correspondence that extends beyond the month.

Write love letters, thank you’s, or simply notes to say that you miss an old friend. Let yourself step away from the urgency of modern life and write for an audience of one. You might enjoy going to the mail box again.”

I read about this, then changed my mind.  “Why would I want to do this?

Excuses not to participate reigned down on me. Not enough time. Who would want to hear from me?  23 people? I can’t think of 23 people! The dreaded hand cramps. Postage rates just went up. And on and on…
Then I remembered my dad’s letters. I also have handwritten letters from my great Aunt Anna. From my then future husband Bill when we spent a month apart during college. Notes from my kids when they were first learning to write.  Handwritten recipe cards by my 99 1/2 year old best friend, now cooking in a heavenly kitchen.

I treasure these letters and keepsakes. Reread them tenderly, often with tears. More than words are intimately communicated with handwriting. Scribbled lines of paper that say, “I am thinking of you. You mean something to me. I care.”

Writer Virginia Woolf called letter writing “the humane art, which owes its origins in the love of friends.”

I read that according to a U.S. Postal Service survey, the average household now receives one personal letter roughly every seven weeks — compared to one letter every two weeks in 1987.
Holiday and birthday cards aren’t included in those numbers, though they also are sent less frequently, The Associated Press reports.
The Postal Service, which is facing losses of up to $8 billion this year, points out the obvious: Letter-writing is on the wane because the Internet has become the “preferred method of communication.”
Email is a speedy concise form of communication. I have linked with people all over the world. I also sigh each day reading multitudes of emails and grin with triumph when emptying my inbox. Just not the satisfaction of opening a letter, slowly savoring its script and connecting with another soul.
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So I am participating in the Month of Letters challenge.  I have started my list of potential victims … targets… recipients… friends. One of the favorites on the roll is my three-year-old granddaughter.  Perhaps she will keep a few handwritten letters from her “Ammie” and put them in her treasure box. I haven’t completed my list so if you are hungering for something in the mail, email me your address – jeanwise22@gmail.com.

Do you have treasured handwritten keepsakes?

 

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  1. blankJean Wise says

    February 5, 2013 at 2:02 pm

    I have been amazed at the reaction to this challenge. I have had wonderful comments and quite a few emails. been fun an uplifting in the middle of dreary winter. so glad you send out cards. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!

  2. blankAnna says

    February 4, 2013 at 8:04 pm

    Love! Love! Love this challenge. In my mind there is nothing better than a hand-written letter. I love everything about it. It’s such a treasure, especially today. I try to send one out each week–mostly to my grandmother and godmother, but also to friends from all over. And while I don’t get as many back, I think it’s good for my heart to send them, so people know I’ve taken the time and effort to think of them. Everything about the process is beautiful, and it’s good for me too.

    Visiting from SITS (a little late). But I’ll be back!

  3. blankJean Wise says

    February 2, 2013 at 7:44 pm

    Caroline you are so right. I know I have a box in the basement with notes from high school. mmm, would be fun to go get them this weekend and reread them. Great idea!

  4. blankJean Wise says

    February 2, 2013 at 7:43 pm

    Hi Tracie. I started my letter writing this week and even got one in the mail from a friend. Such a treasure – a handwritten note!

  5. blankCaroline/SmartyPantsMama says

    February 2, 2013 at 6:04 pm

    I still have a box of notes from high school, plus love letter from a boyfriend.Most importantly are the little letters and notes from my daughter.

  6. blankFrom Tracie says

    February 2, 2013 at 2:37 pm

    This is a really lovely idea. Letters are a precious gift – and they arrive so seldom now.

  7. blankJean Wise says

    January 31, 2013 at 12:53 am

    How cool you have those letters, Kendall. I figure even if I don’t write all 23 letters at least the ones I write will be sent. I have had some great response to this idea and really shows me how we hunger for contact from others. Community is so important! Have a blessed week, Kendall!

  8. blankJean Wise says

    January 31, 2013 at 12:52 am

    wow how cool to read those letters. Such priceless keepsakes and just reinforcing the importance of handwritten letters. Thanks Mary

  9. blankKendal Privette says

    January 30, 2013 at 11:05 am

    i still have all the letters my husband wrote me when he was away at college and i was still in high school…i love them. perhaps i can get on this writing train….

  10. blankMary Gemmill says

    January 30, 2013 at 3:41 am

    Recently a cousin brought me letters I wrote to my Grandmother as a child of 9-11- I am now 63- and loved reading the letters. We also have all the letters my Dad wrote during WW2 to his mother- family treasures for sure. Love this idea- one friend still uses snail mail and it is lovely to receive a hand-written letter, for sure.

  11. blankJean Wise says

    January 30, 2013 at 12:43 am

    Steno pads? I still use them in my news paper reporting. What a neat item to have Johnnie. love it.

    Thanks for the tweet. I told Karen one envelope I have shows a soldier with his bare butt in the air waiting a shot from a nurse. Hysterical.

  12. blankJohnnie Alexander Donley says

    January 30, 2013 at 12:36 am

    Jeanie, my mom and I both loved looking at your dad’s envelopes. Such a special and unique keepsake. My favorite handwritten item is my mom’s valedictorian’s speech written with pencil on a page torn from a steno pad. (Remember those?)

  13. blankJean Wise says

    January 30, 2013 at 12:13 am

    Those letters are very dear to me, Karen. Did you notice the address too? My mom spent part of the time he was overseas with my aunt Katie ( yes who I named my Katie after) and my grandparents in Clearwater. Brings back great memories!

  14. blankJean Wise says

    January 30, 2013 at 12:12 am

    oooo I look forward to watching my mail and have all of the KHW on my list. but don’t tell the others though they may guess. I think writing your sons AND the DIL ( present and future ones) is a great idea. love ya Laura!

  15. blankJean Wise says

    January 30, 2013 at 12:10 am

    I thought it was a good idea and you can tell from my post, then changed my mind, then back again. I figure even if I don’t send out all of them I will still have succeeded. AND the emails I have received today in response to this idea have been wonderful. I am very excited. See those recipes cards become very near and dear. And what do we do now? print them from the computer – those need to be handwritten too. Thanks for your comment.

  16. blankkaren evans says

    January 29, 2013 at 10:56 pm

    Jeanie, those letters from your Dad are wonderful! And the painted envelopes…ahhhhh. My treasured letters are one from my grandfather to grandma during the war, my son’s boot camp letters, and a letter my Dad wrote to me on my wedding day. There are more, but this just shows how “right” this post is. I love it!

  17. blankOutnumberedMom says

    January 29, 2013 at 8:11 pm

    I’m in! I LOVE this — I’ve just been thinking lately about how I should write to my sons, each one, at least once a month. Just love this idea, and Jeanie — check your mailbox next month…!

  18. blankNancy Ruegg says

    January 29, 2013 at 7:48 pm

    What a great idea! Thank you for the inspiration to share handwritten encouragement every day in February. I, too, treasure handwritten items of family members who are now in heaven. Just recently our grown daughter asked if we had any recipes of Grandma R’s–in her handwriting. Perhaps the value lies in the uniqueness. No two people write the exact same way. Holding a handwritten note or recipe connects our hearts to that unique and special person.

  19. blankJean Wise says

    January 29, 2013 at 4:01 pm

    Those envelopes are very very special to me. Even a few corny ones with a patient’s bare butt up in the air getting an injection. I wonder if the post office would even mail that today. HA! Yes you WOULD appreciate the Philippines connection! My list is growing and so is my excitement about this project!

  20. blankNancy Franson says

    January 29, 2013 at 2:05 pm

    This is swoon-worthy. Truly. I love, love, love, the decorated envelopes, and I am just smitten thinking about your dad having served in the Philippines 🙂 I have several hand-written letters from my dad tucked away in books and folders and in my Bible. Now that he is gone, I treasure something that touched his hand–words that flowed from his heart to his head and out onto paper. Hmmm…you’ve got me thinking. Definitely sharing this–a great idea!

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