I am a techie. I love gadgets. The Internet lures me away for hours playing with history, trivia, fascinating conversation.
I admit my struggle with dealing with emails and can tell you all the tips about time management with electronic devices.
Okay one more confession. I am one who has been known to read USAToday app on her IPhone in the middle of the night. Yes I have read all about how the white light from the phone interferes with sleep and about the girl whose pillow caught fire from putting her phone there. What drives this? A fear of missing out on something? An ego urge to know the most up to date info? Insomnia? Why am I fearful of letting go? Guess I have to ponder this a bit more.
I am not into many games, but a good round of Angry Birds is a great stress reducer.
When we go out with friends, we do put the phones away during dinner, but have this unspoken competition about who can look up some table conversation question on Google the quickest.
The truth is: life really happens at its best right in front of us, with our friends and loved ones, not on a screen.
I have read that 84% of cell phone users claim they could not go a single day without their device and one study showed that mobile device owners check their devices every 6.5 minutes.
In my practicing of honoring the Sabbath, I do unplug from Saturday evening through most of Sunday afternoon. Well, most of the time.
One blogger unplugged for an entire year! Here is his story.
Unplugging – from any screen device, especially when it becomes addictive and/or affects relationships – is a discipline that I need more work on. There has to be a balance with this new technology that bears both good and bad effects.
Unplug yourself. Devote time each day to turning down the volume on electronic devices in order to be present with what is. Let yourself sit for a few minutes with no agenda. Listen for the silence that is present between your thoughts. Let your mind take a rest and be blessed in its true nature.
Donald Altman
Did you know in March there is a National Day of Unplugging? And this Thursday, October 16 is Unplug Your Kids: Connect your Family day. Thursday is an initiative that calls upon families to put down their mobile devices, turn off their TVs and put away their laptops and tablets for one night to sit around the kitchen table or family room playing their favorite board games in an attempt to re-engage the family in real conversation and nostalgic fun.
I am not sure how often unplugging is beneficial in the reality of today’s world, but realize that periodic connecting the old fashion way seems to lift my spirit.
I do use apps on my phone to connect with God. Recently I am finding the prayers on the Honor Your Inner Monk app very real and meaningful. But the practice that brings me closer to God is contemplative prayer, resting in his presence, silent and being plugged into only one thing: the Holy Spirit. Without the gadgets, the clicks and the obsessive glow of that eerie white light, there seems to be more space for God. Whatever draws me away from God, takes my eyes and heart from him or distracts me from his word, whether it is technology, food, or ego driven wants becomes my god if I am not careful. God first!
“My soul finds rest in God alone.” Psalm 62:1
Unplugging is a discipline I am going to intentionally practice more. I want to be fully present to God. More God, less technology.
Power down the devices and power up with God.
What do you think?
My husband and I ran away from home this past weekend, and I unplugged for three whole days of hiking in the outdoor beauty of Sedona. Refreshing and wonderful! Yet I also deeply appreciate the internet. We used to live overseas for years with only snail mail where it took 6 weeks to send a letter home and get an answer back, so for quick response times, Lord, I am truly grateful!
ooo, what a delight, Ken to be unplugged for three days. Sedona is beautiful. The Internet is a wonderful tool and resource to be managed; I just can’t let it manage me. We will be traveling in a few weeks and I plan on turning off the phone on the trip. will see how well I do. Your comment though encourages me. thanks!
Jean, I think unplugging from our electronic devices and, instead, plugging into God is the way to go! I spend time each day intentionally NOT on my phone or computer. And, I look forward to our trips to the mountains where I ignore Facebook and e-mails for several days running. Great post! Blessings!
Hi Martha, You hit the nail on the head with the word intentionally. – that is what is needed in so many ways. Don’t allow the devices to manage us; no wonder we become mindless. Practice mindfulness and put healthy boundaries around anything that draws us from God. I do plan to turn off my phone on our upcoming trip. this will be the longest I will be unplugged for a long time. Glad to hear from you!!
It’s tough for me to unplug too. I do love my technology. And often too much. 🙁 Thanks for the reminder to not let it take the lead role though.
It makes me feel better to know I am not the only one struggling with this, Lisa. Probably the first step is the awareness, then take some small step. I think I am going to put up a few more boundaries during the day on the internet and see if that works.
This is the 2nd post of SDG where I’m reading about unplugging. My first response is “how can I unplug at a time like this.” But then I hear God’s voice…”How can you not?” Oooh. Convicting.
Funny, Jen, How God repeats his messages to us. I know unplugging once a week has helped me but I feel a need to do more. Probably just need to get off all screens earlier in the evenings – ironically written at 9:30 at night. LOL
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Great post! I keep saying I’m going to unplug for a few days, but it turns into a few minutes. “I’ll just Google that real quick” or “Let me send her a message before I forget” turns into “Let me just check Facebook while I’m at it … and Twitter … and Pinterest.” Lol. I know I don’t need a national “holiday” to do it, but I think I’m going to try unplugging my family Thursday! Thanks for this post Jean!
I know unplugging once a week over the sabbath helps me. I am thinking I need better boundaries during the day though. Manage the device; don’t let them manage me!
Miss working with you!