Are you guilty of making prayer too difficult? I know I do at times. Okay, most times. I was thinking the other day how I have been walking with you this entire year, discovering, exploring, and tasting prayer. Though the adventure has been rich and full, how am I going to remember to “do” all these prayers, these wonderful “techniques” and of course, do them correctly so I earn an A in the course?
I know. I know. I know that isn’t what God wants. Me neither.
In September, a word to frame our traveling with prayer will be “difficult.” Today is reflecting on making prayer too difficult and next week will be when it is too difficult to pray. Earlier in the summer, I updated a free prayer resources called “The Prayer Tool Box. ” This pdf has lots of digital and analog ideas for spending your time with God. Click the button at the bottom of this post to get yours if you didn’t get one in June.
Making Prayer Too Difficult
K.I.S.S. – Keep It Simple, Sweetie!
Sometimes the best kind of prayer is simply no words at all. Just gazing and being with God.
Other times tears and sighs lead directly to God’s presence.
Ann Lamott wrote a book about prayer and the title says it all: Help. Thanks. Wow.
We don’t pray because we aren’t sure if we will do it right. Or will mess it up. Then what would God think about us?
God doesn’t care about the how-to; God cares about you.
Just talk with God. Keep prayer simple.
One Idea to Stop Making Prayer Too Difficult
“Those who sing, pray twice.”
St. Augustine
Prayer floods my heart with music.
Two weeks ago in church, my mind wandered. I just wasn’t present in my heart and mind. This is supposed to be worship. I “should” be focused on God. I finally gave up – wasn’t go to happen this morning. Just go through the motions and maybe next week will be better.
We closed the service with this hymn – O Jesus, I have Promised. I wasn’t that familiar with this one but knew the tune. This hymn was written by John Bode for his children’s confirmation day. The words became my prayer and invitation into God’s presence, sort of my confirmation from God that he is present even when I am not.
O Jesus, I have promised to serve you to the end;
remain forever near me, my master and my friend.
I shall not fear the battle if you are by my side,
nor wander from the pathway if you will be my guide.
Oh, let me feel you near me; the world is ever near.
I see the sights that dazzle, the tempting sounds I hear.
My foes are ever near me, around me and within;
but Jesus, then draw nearer to shield my soul from sin.
Oh, let me hear you speaking in accents clear and still
above the storms of passion, the murmurs of selfwill.
Now speak to reassure me, to hasten or control;
now speak and make me listen, O Guardian of my soul.
O Jesus, you have promised to all who follow you
that where you are in glory your servant shall be too.
And Jesus, I have promised to serve you to the end;
oh, give me grace to follow, my master and my friend.
Later that day I worshipped at home when I listened to the words of a contemporary song by Natalie Grant called “Enough.” Praying this song wasn’t difficult at all.
Here where the silence speaks
Here in the great unseen
Here when the answer’s out of reach
Here I will brace my heart
Here I will brave the dark
Here find You singing over me
I am known, I am seen
I am carried by the One who won’t forsake me
I am held, I’m not alone
And I know that You will never let me go
Your unfailing love, Your unfailing love
It’s all I have, it’s all I need and it’s enough
Your unfailing love, Your unfailing love
It’s all I have, it’s all I need and it’s enough
It’s all I have, it’s all I need it’s enough
Here I’ll let faith collide
With fear, knowing I will find
You are only good, and only kind
I am known, I am seen
I am carried by the One who won’t forsake me
I am held, I’m not alone
‘Cause I know that You will never let me go
Your unfailing love, Your unfailing love
It’s all I have, it’s all I need and it’s enough
Your unfailing love, Your unfailing love
It’s all I have, it’s all I need and it’s enough
It’s all I have, it’s all I need it’s enough
In my weakness you are closest
When I’m heavy and heartbroken
Still You whisper every moment
You are mine when the storm is finally over
And the Heavens are wide open
Still You whisper every moment You are mine
Your unfailing love, Your unfailing love
It’s all I have, it’s all I need and it’s enough
Your unfailing love, Your unfailing love
It’s all I have, it’s all I need and it’s enough
It’s all I have, it’s all I need it’s enough
You’re all I have
You’re all I need
You are enough
Songwriters: Mia Fieldes / Bernie Herms / Natalie Grant
When we can’t pray, others can through music. Just listen. Read the lyrics out loud instead of singing. Music opens the doors into God’s presence. Even when we make praying too difficult.
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How do you make prayer difficult? What have you learned to counter this?