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The Gift of Disease

May 7, 2013 By Jean Wise

the gift of disease

Ever consider the gift of disease? I have a good friend who has a slow growing cancer that will eventually be his cause of death.  I enjoy listening to him as he tells me he is discovering unexpected gifts while traveling with this uninvited illness.
He didn’t at first feel that way. At the beginning he was angry, then depressed. One day he said, he just sat there and felt like he was holding his cancer wrapped up as a present. He faced the gift of disease. That day his eyes and heart were open to all that this path in life taught him.
  • He appreciates the small things.
  • He enjoys the present moments.
  • He smiles more.
  • He listens deeply to family and friends.
  • He experiences God in new ways.
Being a nurse, most of my life I fought against disease. Even as I helped people at the end of life, I held onto quite of bit of resentment at the powerlessness of the situation. I never thought of disease as a gift.
So join me in a little diversion today. Fire up your imagination. Ponder this imaginative decision.
The bad news:  In this inventive game, you will have a disease.
The good news:  The good news, you get to chose which one.

What would that particular ailment teach you? What gift could disease bring?

I am cheating a bit because I am going to pick an easy disease (you can too if you want). And to be honest, it isn’t really a disease. I am really taking the chicken way out of this assignment…
But here goes:
I chose Synesthesia.
Synesthesia is a neurological condition in which stimulation of one sense (e.g., taste) produces experiences in a totally different sense (e.g., sight). What this means is to people with this condition two or more of the senses entwine. Approximately one in 27 people have some form of synesthesia.
For example: Someone with this condition sees letters and numbers in colors or associate sounds with tastes and textures. Other tastes food and beverages in shapes and colors or hears music in colors.
The most common form of synesthesia is called colored hearing. The people who have it get impressions of color, and sometimes of shape from the sounds that they hear.

The letter J means yellow to you or you see purple when you hear or see the number 5.

 

Maybe July is always navy blue.

 

You listen to a C sharp in music and see pink.

 

Imagine that when you see a city’s skyline, you taste blackberries.

 

NPR has a fascinating article on this phenomenon.

“If you ask synesthetes if they’d wish to be rid of it, they almost always say no.

 

 For them, it feels like that’s what normal experience is like.

 

To have that taken away would make them feel like they were being deprived of one sense.”

 


– Simon Baron-Cohen, synesthesia researcher at the University of Cambridge
See why I would choose this condition? To hear colors and see sounds adds a new dimension to the joys and experience in life.
Now that would be some gift!
But unfortunately we can’t choose what may arrive unexpectedly in our bodies and brains.
What did I learn by pondering this?
Once again I came face to face with my ego driven urge to control. My journey in life is teaching me more and more about being at peace with powerlessness. I am learning to recognize when this is the source of my anxiety and fear. I cling to God’s promises since He is in charge. I am powerless without Him.
My friend with cancer shared perhaps the greatest gift of disease.

“I haven’t been healed of my cancer, but I’ve been healed in many other ways.”

 

Powerlessness is not about losing hope; it is all about attitude. Seeing with new eyes what the moment, the circumstance, the unexpected contain. I have always found comfort in this prayer:

“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

 

the courage to change the things I can,

 

and the wisdom to know the difference.”

 

—The Serenity Prayer

Wisdom also to see the gifts in disease.

What has disease or feeling powerless taught you? What gift of disease have you ever received?

 

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  1. blankJean Wise says

    May 9, 2013 at 5:13 pm

    wow that is a beautiful story. What a comforting gift she gave you!

  2. blankJean Wise says

    May 8, 2013 at 8:52 pm

    I was with him again today and his willingness to share and learn even on a darker path amazes and inspires me. I would love to tastes colors like those with synesthesia. Little jealous of them to be honest.

  3. blankLaura Boggess says

    May 8, 2013 at 7:09 pm

    What a remarkable person your friend is, Jean. I can learn a lot from him. And I found synesthesia fascinating to read about. I’ve heard a little about it in the past–always thinking this same thing about what a beautiful thing to experience colors with different senses. Working in a hospital has taught me a lot about how people accept illness and how their acceptance impacts their healing. Very good thoughts, friend.

  4. blankJean Wise says

    May 8, 2013 at 5:32 pm

    Hi Rebekah, great Bible verse you added to these words. I too need the reminder I find often in blogs. God does send His messages one way or another to us if we seek them.

  5. blankJean Wise says

    May 8, 2013 at 5:32 pm

    Peace with powerlessness is a lifelong journey. The moment I think I am finally accepting it, resistance shows up again! But I guess we keep trying, right?

  6. blankJean Wise says

    May 8, 2013 at 5:30 pm

    Hi Lyli, I remembered you had a rough recovery and we have just prayed recently for your hubby, right? God is in everything the big, the small, the joys and the tough times. He is with us right along. I hurt my back a few years ago and it was so painful to walk. When I walked this morning for 2 miles I gave thanks for no pain and the ability to move. Such blessings we often ignore until we can’t them. Blessings!

  7. blankJean Wise says

    May 8, 2013 at 5:28 pm

    Nancy, it has taken him quite a while to get to the place of acceptance but wow I love to listen to him share his joys and observances now. such wisdom. Thanks for commenting today

  8. blankJean Wise says

    May 8, 2013 at 5:27 pm

    Hello dear Mia, my friends’ heart is so open to the path before him. He didn’t accept this right away, it has been a long process but I love listening to him mind the treasures along the way. You are so right no one has real security – life can change so suddenly. I am so glad we stay connected, Mia. Blessing on your week

  9. blankRebekah says

    May 8, 2013 at 1:39 pm

    “My journey in life is teaching me more and more about being at peace with powerlessness. I am learning to recognize when this is the source of my anxiety and fear. I cling to God’s promises since He is in charge. I am powerless without Him.”

    I am needing these reminders, often. Thank you!

    This is the verse I closed my day with yesterday:

    “But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”

  10. blankbluecottonmemory says

    May 8, 2013 at 4:34 am

    I am learning that – to find “peace with powerlessness” – it’s a hard lesson, though! I loved your lesson. It made me think of people with ADD as a focus issue – who can hyper focus on some things but get lost in a fog in others – and to them that is normal – to not be able to hyperfocus would be like losing something:)

  11. blankLyli Dunbar says

    May 8, 2013 at 2:41 am

    Jean, this post resonated with me deeply after spending most of last year in “recovery mode” from surgery. — God has awakened me to small gifts and blessings — I now appreciate that I am able to brush my teeth and hold down a meal. Every day is such a gift.

  12. blankNancy Ruegg says

    May 8, 2013 at 12:26 am

    Oh, to have such a positive outlook on life as your friend–in the face of cancer! Thank you for sharing his story and your insights, like this one:

    Powerlessness is not about losing hope; it is all about attitude. Seeing with new eyes what the moment, the circumstance, the unexpected contain.

    That’s good advice no matter what we face!

  13. blankMia says

    May 7, 2013 at 7:21 pm

    Dear Jean
    Although I have so much sympathy for your friend, I can see that his cancer has taught him much. For that I am so glad! No one has any security for tomorrow in any case except our Lord Jesus.
    Love to you

  14. blankSharon Claassen says

    May 7, 2013 at 12:16 pm

    Interesting experiment…I be pondering this throughout the day.

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