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Am I Losing my Mind? Feeling Incomplete and Missing Pieces

September 27, 2016 By Jean Wise

Am I losing my mind?  I felt that way.

Am I Losing my Mind? Feeling Incomplete and mIssing Pieces at healthyspirituality.org

I wandered around the house, searching, feeling incomplete, knowing I am missing a piece.

blankYou see, I lost my Fitbit. 

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I am as attached to my tiny step measuring buddy as I am to my smart phone and the Internet. Oh, and probably my hubby. 

WHERE ARE YOU??? (screaming this for my Fitbit, not my husband…..well, again, probably both)

Am I losing my mind? Feeling Incomplete and Missing Pieces

I hadn’t left the house since I checked my counter earlier in the day. Hey, it’s got to here someplace! We hunted. We peered under counters and inside the crumbs of my favorite chair cushion (found a quarter and two missing game pieces though)  We aimed the flashlight into so many dark cob-webby corners I concluded I really do need to clean more precisely someday. We checked, rechecked and this morning checked again every nook, cranny and edge of existence.

No luck.  Disappeared.  Down the black hole where all the socks and favorite pens vanish.  Am I losing my mind? It has to be here someplace! (If you only read this blog by email, you may have to go to the blog to see the clip below)

Last evening at bedtime, I lamented my loss. Even though in the scheme of world crisis, legitimate grief of love ones and traumatic separations – my tiny episode spotlighted that some part of me disappeared and went missing. I felt incomplete. Yep, once again I wondered: Am I losing my mind to be so consumed by such a trivial loss?

A few weeks ago the Gospel lesson from Luke 15 told the story of the good Shepherd doing everything to find the one lost sheep.

Then Jesus told them this parable: 

“Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Doesn’t he leave the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost sheep until he finds it?  

And when he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders

Luke 15: 3-5

This parable companioned me in my toddler tantrum about losing something insignificant, but wailing like it held more importance.  The true lesson is knowing the depth of search, the urgency of my determination to find my Fitbit and the ever watching/seeking to hold it again – is minuscule compared to God’s relentless pursuit of one of his sheep. His ongoing quest to be with me.  He endless hunt to be with you.

The missing Fitbit is a reminder that I am incomplete without the Lord. I have a missing piece in my heart only he provides. The phrase “God Shaped Hole” comes to mind:

“What else does this craving, and this helplessness, proclaim but that there was once in man a true happiness, of which all that now remains is the empty print and trace?

This he tries in vain to fill with everything around him, seeking in things that are not there the help he cannot find in those that are, though none can help, since this infinite abyss can be filled only with an infinite and immutable object; in other words by God himself”

Pascal

God always surprises me with lessons he tucks into the ordinary circumstances of living.

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I am grateful that he continues to teach us, shape us, and obviously has not given up on us, his sheep, his imperfect, crazy, sometimes goofy humans.

My Fitbit?  Still missing.  am I losing my mind? healthyspirituality.org

God.  Still here.  Thank you, Lord!  

What lessons have you learned lately from everyday life?

 

 

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  1. blankNancy Ruegg says

    September 28, 2016 at 4:05 pm

    Perhaps by today you’ve found that mischievous fitbit. I pray so! Meanwhile, a recent life lesson for me came as I watched squirrels jump from one branch to another. I sometimes catch my breath because they seem to take such risks. Yet they never fall. God has given them such clinging ability! I, too, can cling in faith to my Heavenly Father, his promises, and the memories of blessings and interventions of the past. Like the squirrels move with confidence high up in the trees, I can move confidently through my days. My Father will not let me fall (Psalm 37:32-24). P.S. Love that quotable tweet, Jean, that celebrates life lessons as delightful surprises from God.

    • blankJean Wise says

      September 30, 2016 at 10:15 am

      i did find it but several days later. will write about that next week. love the image of the squirrels. isn’t it cool to see God’s lessons around us?

      • blankNancy Ruegg says

        October 1, 2016 at 10:58 am

        Indeed and AMEN! Also, hip-hip-hallelujah the fitbit showed up! 🙂

  2. blankMartha Orlando says

    September 27, 2016 at 2:53 pm

    The mystery of the missing fitbit . . . I do hope you find it, Jean. I know it drives me nuts when I can’t find something (usually because I can’t recall where I stashed it).
    I’m always seeing God’s lessons in the ordinary and the mundane. He truly is everywhere and in everything when we open the eyes of our hearts, isn’t He? So grateful for His continued love and presence. Blessings!

    • blankJean Wise says

      September 28, 2016 at 6:45 am

      Yes drove me nuts but the good news is I just found it. Will have to share the story in an upcoming blog. Yes God is so amazing, always teaching us. Hope your week is going well.

  3. blankCeil says

    September 27, 2016 at 11:48 am

    Hi Jean! I don’t have a Fitbit, but I wear a watch and I feel ‘naked’ without it.
    I love the image of a relentless hunt for me. Who wouldn’t be filled with smiles knowing that the Lord runs after us with a persistence that we will never understand. We are his ‘lost coin’.
    Did you find your Fitbit? I’m hoping you did. (Then you can rejoice and be reminded of how lovely it is to be found in him!)
    Happy Tuesday!
    Ceil

    • blankJean Wise says

      September 28, 2016 at 6:44 am

      long story and another blog post but yes just did find the fitbit – no kidding it jump out at me! amazing and yes I celebrated. What has been lost, has been found! but good lesson for me to learn. God is so good to keep teaching us. Have a blessed week, Ceil

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