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Dancing with Faith and Courage

January 30, 2014 By Jean Wise

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Dancing with Faith and Courage

Hope is the ability to hear the music of the future.

Faith is having the courage to dance to it today.

 ~ Dr. Peter Kuzmi 

I watched two different women this week dance with faith and courage in the midst of raw grief and confusing self-disclosure and doubt.

Like the cracked thick calluses on my heels, my harden heart split open raw with their stories. Each word, the pumice stone. Each tear, the moisturizing cream.

After sharing her story one lady faces the future with inspiring courage. She has chosen a difficult path and is ready now to explore the second half of her life. She told me,

“It’s been an ongoing struggle of pretending to be something I am not and then learning to accept myself as I am created to be. I’ve let my walls down and found strength in my vulnerability.”

Her pain taught me I can survive and even thrive being myself – no masks needed. Just take the steps into the unknown path ahead knowing God will accompany me and guide me. Once she said those words, her spirit soared. She was free. Free to dance.

“The encouraging thing is that every time you meet a situation, though you may think at the time it is an impossibility and you go through the tortures of the damned, once you have met it and lived through it you find that forever after you are freer than you ever were before.

 If you can live through that you can live through anything.

You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face.

You are able to say to yourself, `I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’

The danger lies in refusing to face the fear, in not daring to come to grips with it.

 If you fail anywhere along the line, it will take away your confidence.

You must make yourself succeed every time.

You must do the thing you think you cannot do.”

— Eleanor Roosevelt 

The second lady shared her story about starting a garden. She, her husband and two kids were going to Europe for an extended study and she wanted to have something at home waiting for her return.

She did return the following year, but without a husband and with a now disabled son. A terrible car crash took his life and caused permanent brain damage to her then four year old. She now sat in the garden with grief.

But she sparkled with hope as she told her story.

“Death is real, but life is realer,” she smiled. “Life wins. Jesus is risen. Death does not have the last word.” 

She told us the compost pile sits in the corner of the garden. As she sat there in her brokenness and her sorrow, she realized:

You put a banana peel into the compost heap, but you don’t get a banana tree. People die. Her husband would not be coming back. But too often we get too busy looking for banana trees and miss the peonies. Life changes. Death happens. But so does resurrection. So does transformation.

She plans to live with faith and hope and enjoy the flowers nourished from the banana peels.

We delight in the beauty of the butterfly,

 but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.

 —Maya Angelou

 I listened to the stories of others this week. Then found hope in knowing Jesus’ resurrection defeats death.

I saw courage.

I witnessed faith.

And my heart, rubbed raw with their words, danced.

 

 

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  1. Ceil says

    January 31, 2014 at 5:28 pm

    Hi Jean! So many beautiful words here, and real stories that pull at the heart. Wow. You had quite a week, didn’t you? I love the words about expecting ‘banana trees’. I have to meditate on that one. What a wonderful image that is.
    And letting go of what you think you are, and holding on to what you truly are? That takes so much growth. What hard-won wisdom.
    Thank you for sharing your experiences. We all walked them with you.
    Ceil

    • blankJean Wise says

      January 31, 2014 at 9:46 pm

      Hi Ceil, the messages and witness of these two ladies were so powerful and still linger with me. I can still hear their voices.

  2. blankHugmomma says

    January 31, 2014 at 5:02 pm

    To stop pretending, to be who I am … and accept responsibility for who that is. I don’t know that I am ready. However, I don’t know how much longer I can hold back the dam.

    • blankJean Wise says

      January 31, 2014 at 9:45 pm

      These were powerful moments and messages in the lives of these women. What a witness. Interesting you mentioned holding back the dam. both ladies did cry while they spoke. I think water and tears are part of the journey

  3. blankElizabeth Stewart says

    January 31, 2014 at 11:20 am

    I’m so glad to be here from thought provoking Thursday. Beautiful post.

    • blankJean Wise says

      January 31, 2014 at 9:44 pm

      Thanks for stopping by today!

  4. blanksoulstops says

    January 30, 2014 at 10:51 pm

    Wow…what a witness both of these women have..the 2nd woman’s story really struck me…to see the flowers in the midst of pain and loss.

    • blankJean Wise says

      January 31, 2014 at 9:43 pm

      I felt as I listen like I was on sacred ground. their stories just lingered with me.

  5. blankJennifer says

    January 30, 2014 at 8:20 am

    This puts a lot of my own grief into a new perspective. Beautiful stories and testimonies of people whose hope is in the things they cannot see. I appreciate the time you take to write, to encourage. You put the shining light of Jesus in my inbox.

    • blankJean Wise says

      January 30, 2014 at 7:20 pm

      I thought both experiences were powerful for me and certainly lingered with me. Thanks for your kinds words, Jennifer

  6. blankSylv_R says

    January 30, 2014 at 8:16 am

    Wow. What a staggering tragedy that second woman went through! (And what aftermath always there to deal with and remind.) Odd perhaps, but it’s her statement, “too often we get too busy looking for banana trees and miss the peonies” that really grabbed me, and that I want to grab and hang onto. It can apply in so many cases of loss and change and uncertainty for the future. Thanks for sharing this.

    • blankJean Wise says

      January 30, 2014 at 7:19 pm

      I know when she said that sentence it really resonated with me too. What hope and faith she has. Quite a witness.

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