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New Year – Looking Back and Looking Forward

January 4, 2011 By Jean Wise

January is the month of “Janus.” Janus was the Roman god of gates and doorways, depicted with two faces looking in opposite directions – a good image of this first month of the year.  One face looks back on the year gone and the other looks forward to the new and uncertain one ahead.
January is a reflective month – an opportunity to look back at the year behind us – letting go of our regrets and celebrating our joys, then we look forward also into the coming months. Many of us make well-meaning resolutions and hope we can achieve at least some of them.
January is a transition time. – the liminal space between two years.  William Bridges wrote a wonderful and interesting book about transitions, Transitions: Making Sense of Life’s Changesand The Way of Transitionblank. Transition is a the process of letting go of the way things used to be and then taking hold of the way they subsequently become. One of his concepts I appreciated learning was the three phases of change/transitions:
Ending
The Neutral Zone
New Beginning.
Transition can create a feeling of vulnerability.  The safety of the old year, our old life has vanished. The passage into the new unknown year may be threatening.

Chatting at the Sky has a great post about the fear we may be experiencing with the new year.  Read the comments there also – they are great. 

We don’t have to feel that way though, when we know Who is the gate.  Who walks with us. Who protects us and guides us.
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The gatekeeper opens the gate for him, and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. When he has brought out all his own, he goes on ahead of them, and his sheep follow him because they know his voice.
But they will never follow a stranger; in fact, they will run away from him because they do not recognize a stranger’s voice.” Jesus used this figure of speech, but the Pharisees did not understand what he was telling them.

Therefore Jesus said again, “Very truly I tell you, I am the gate for the sheep. John 10:3-7

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  1. blankJean Wise says

    January 6, 2011 at 12:42 am

    Once I knew it was normal to feel disoriented, restless and in a fog during a transition, I actually was more comfortable with the emotions. It is still hard to wait though. Thanks for commenting!

  2. blankRebecca Ramsey says

    January 6, 2011 at 12:03 am

    So thought provoking. Usually I spend a lot of time around this period looking back, but after this year? I’m ready to send it into the past, focusing on what’s to come.

    Happy New Year, Jean! I’m so glad
    we’re friends!

  3. blankPhather Phil Malmstrom says

    January 4, 2011 at 4:55 pm

    Wonderful post Jean.

    How we handle our transitions can very much shape how we live our lives, and what expectations we have going forward. If we keep our eyes and hearts focused on Him, those transitions all become much more reasonable.

    Have a Blessed Day!

  4. blankKaren says

    January 4, 2011 at 4:36 pm

    Jeanie, another great post. Transitions-I wonder how many this year? But right now, I’m looking forward to new and exciting surprises.

  5. blankJean Wise says

    January 4, 2011 at 4:10 pm

    Transitions are difficult, that lost, disorientation feeling makes us very vulnerable. Loved this pic of Jesus at the gate, being there with us. Thanks for visiting Alida

  6. blankAlida says

    January 4, 2011 at 3:47 pm

    The transitional periods in my life have always been the hardest to handle. I am truly grateful to know Who watches the gate for me and Who walks with me and Who protects and guides me. Without His protection I would have never made it through.

    Joy & Blessings,
    Alida from Blackpurl’s Knitpickings

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