Four Somethings is a regular blog post where I feature bits of wisdom in four categories.
Gathering Four Somethings makes me aware of all the blessings often hidden under busyness, worries, and distractions. These “somethings” become markers in our spiritual journey. With so much pivoting and uncertainty in our lives right now, being grounded in a simple practice like this guides my way.
As I began this practice last year, I listened to my heart and to God and narrowed down my four categories and use them to frame these life lessons:
- Something Wise
- Something Wonderful
- Something Whispered
- Something Whimsical
Each one reminds me to pay attention to these qualities in my life as gifts from God.
Something Wise
Kate Bowler shared this New Year Blessing on her web page. So fitting for all of us and a wonderful prayer to accompany my words of the year: Honor the thirst deep within.
A blessing for when you want to change
God, I carry around this incompleteness,
this drive for fulfillment that always seems just around the corner.
If only I could get it together and find my true calling,
my real passion, or the right plan.
God, help me, guide me. What am I missing?
Blessed are we who strive earnestly
to change ourselves and the world around us,
but feel the drag and pull of what won’t budge,
the weight of all our limited and frail humanity.
We carry it with us.
Blessed are we, the hungry,
in lives that are both too much and not enough,
willing to tell the truth to ourselves and to each other,
that we languish here…
in “what is perhaps the central paradox of our condition—
that what we hunger for more than anything else, is to be known in our full humanness, and yet that is often just what we also fear more than anything else.” (Frederick Buechner)
To be fully known, and fully loved, in all our humanity.
And that is a God-sized project.
Blessed are we, thankful that we can live
our human-sized lives in the glad company of the vulnerable and the broken,
the imperfect made whole in the love of God, through Jesus Christ.
Maybe it’s right to be hungry. And stay that way.
I can easily substitute my word, thirst, for her word, hungry “Maybe it’s right to be thirsty. And stay that way.” Wow, something to ponder, right?
Something Wonderful
A new grandson! Wyatt Witt Wise was born Jan 10, 6 # 11 oz. He is my 6th grandchild – four boys and two girls. I feel so blessed!
“If I had known grandchildren were this much fun, I would have had them first.” – Unknown
Something Whispered
“Deep trust” is the phrase I am hearing from the Lord. The words feel like an invitation to come closer. Letting go of false beliefs and lying narratives. To step out in faith, grasping God’s hand into an uncertain future.
I am not sure where this journey will lead, but I know Who travels with me.
Something Whimsical
I paused this morning and scanned my coffee mugs. Do you have special cups or dishes that represent something about you? Fun isn’t it; and very self-revealing.
We recently decluttered our mug cupboard and of course it was hard to thin out some old favorites. How insightful to ponder the “chosen” ones who were kept and how they describe various aspects of my life – creativity, writing, family, travel. Here are a few examples:
Where is God leading you in 2023?
Lisa notes says
I’m reading Kate Bowler’s new book right now. These blessings are so beautiful and insightful. I love the one you share here. Congratulations on your little WWW. He’s gorgeous!
Jean Wise says
I think I will be reading that book too. I love the practice of blessings. Thanks for sharing my grandchild joy!
Pat Forsman says
thank you jean….and congratulations on new grand baby!!!…
after my morning bible time…The Lord said “linger with me”…i dont know how to do that…just stay in the chair and be quiet??..the feelin i have now is like on a sunny day…its beautiful…you want to get out and do something with it but ya dont know what…same feelin…i want to do something with God but i dont know what…interestin…whimiscal…daughter and husband bought me a 6 foot santa claus!!!..
Jean Wise says
Linger with me – what a wonderful invitation! I sit still. deep breath. Imagine having coffee/tea with Jesus. What is he saying to me? Sometimes we just smile at each other. And that Santa sounds fun!!
Nancy Ruegg says
Yes, “maybe it’s right we stay hungry/thirsty.” I agree. What comes to mind is C. S. Lewis’ call to “further up, further in.” There is joy in the fact we will never reach the end of discovering, growing in, and enjoying our God. / What fun, Jean–a new baby in the family! Congratulations from this corner too! / Love all those mugs. We have to pare ours down now and then too. I think they multiply when the cupboard door is shut! Maybe I’ve mentioned this before, but one of my favorites came from our oldest granddaughter, as a tease for her former language-arts- teacher Nana. It says, “I am silently correctly your grammar!”
Jean Wise says
oooo i like that CS Lewis quote!
Martha J Orlando says
I’m wondering if I shouldn’t start this practice in my blogging routine, Jean. It seems it demands that we be more aware and mindful – my word for 2023.
And a big congratulations on the newest grandchild!!! Yes, grandchildren are such a fabulous blessing.
Jean Wise says
I like having this format. I haven’t written one monthly but more like 6-8 weeks and it helps me reflect and especially savor the whimiscal!
Linda Stoll says
‘Gathering Four Somethings makes me aware of all the blessings often hidden under busyness, worries, and distractions. These “somethings” become markers in our spiritual journey.’
Jean, I love how you invite your somethings to be so purposeful and intentional. You’re giving me cause for pause as you always do.
Jean Wise says
Thanks so much Linda. This process has been so beneficial for me!