Discernment. Discernment. I believe we all want to make the best decisions whether they are major life changing ones or discerning how to best live in everyday life. Facing a difficult time of indecisiveness and confusion twists our guts and fogs our faith. How can we live and thrive and grow as discerning people? Discernment is the theme for April's Tending the Holy Thursday posts where I pick one topic to explore more deeply throughout the month. This week we will explore what discernment is and what it looks like. The following weeks will be tips, the nitty-gritty on practicing this much needed skill, then some quotes and lessons about discernment. May this deepening topic help you through those difficult transitions and just plain daily choices. What is Discernment? Discernment is more than decision making. To discern in Latin means to discernere - dis = apart and cernere = to separate. We make a choice but as believers we take in all the meanings, consequences, and … [Read more...]
7 Books & 7 Quotes about Books
Books Books – I love them. I have piles on my nightstand, stacks on my desk, and too many on my bookshelves so my hubby tells me. "Do you really need another book?" he asks. " Do you need air?" I answered with a glare. I should own stock on Amazon. And I will be truthful – I support our local library too. I borrow quite a few of the books from their shelves – share the love, right? I enjoy reading other people's blogs about what they have read or are reading, so thought I would share a few with you this week. Most of the following books I have read since the first of the year. Hopefully you will find a couple of new books to enjoy! 7 Books The Gift for All People – Max Lucado I love how Max Lucado writes – inspirational stories and powerful word images. This book is a collection of short devotional stories focusing on God's gift of love and grace for all of us. My only disappointment is the book isn't original – it is composed of stories taken from his earlier … [Read more...]
March Madness or Oops, It’s My Monthly Musings
What are Monthly Musings? At the beginning of each month, I share lessons I learned from the previous month. I call these my Monthly Musings (I have a free cheat sheet if you want to help with this practice you (see end of this post) and/or a printed book, Monthly Musings Journal, available on Amazon if you are interested). These are ways to incorporate the spiritual practice of reflection into your life and often I see God's touch and presence more in this rearview mirror look-back on life. I have been working on a book proposal about the value of the spiritual practice of remembering and living a reflective life. Doing this column each month has grounded me in this practice and helped me capture those fleeting moments of joy, learning, and life. March Madness or My Monthly Musings What did I learn/observe in March? Lessons Learned: I have been pondering Jesus as a carpenter. I wonder what he made. How the sawdust felt to him? Did he ever miss his mark and hit his … [Read more...]
How to Prepare your Heart for a Spiritual Retreat
I leave Thursday for a spiritual retreat – a four day silent one that feeds my soul. I love spending time in deep conversation with God and getting away from the noise that bombards me – both internal and external. But one thing I have learned from taking multiple retreats is to take the first step days before leaving. How do you prepare your heart for a spiritual retreat? A farmer wouldn't just cast seeds on hard uncultivated ground. A writer outlines a book plot. A cook purchases the necessary ingredients for the big meal. Priming your spirit for spending time with God is like any of these types of work – usually some preliminary prayer and pondering best prepares us. 6 tips on how to prepare your heart for a spiritual retreat: Pray – Ask God to start now to quiet your internal chattering, so you can listen deeply to his voice. Ask for protection for your time away. Ask God to be with your family so your worries can stay at home and not rattle around your spirit while you … [Read more...]
He is Risen! Arise! It’s Easter Morning
RISEN! HE IS RISEN! ALLELUIA! … [Read more...]
Good Friday – It is Finished
When he had received the drink, Jesus said, “It is finished.” With that, he bowed his head and gave up his spirit. John 19:30 … [Read more...]
Celtic Christianity – Anamchara
Celtic Christianity – Anamchara Anamchara is a phrase in Celtic Christianity meaning soul friend. This month on Tending the Holy Thursday we have explored several great Irish people of faith – St.Gobnait, St Brigid, and St Patrick – all have become our soul friends – our anamchara. Celtic Christianity overflows with intriguing concepts – so many I had trouble deciding one to share today. For example, ever hear of peregrinatio? It is the seeking, questing, adventure, wondering, and exile we all experience on the journey of life. The continuous never ending transformation in the rhythm of our daily living and daily dyings where we slowly are shaped by God. But anamchara kept calling to me as this week's focus. What is Anamchara? Irish writer and poet John O'Donohue defines this idea best: In the Celtic tradition, there is a beautiful understanding of love and friendship. One of the fascinating ideas here is the idea of soul-love; the old Gaelic term for this is anam cara. … [Read more...]
Today is National Goof Off Day
National Goof Off Day Today is National Goof Off Day. Ever hear of it? I hadn't, but thought what fun! But then again. I need to be focused. "I am a serious writer, you know...." I should only be productive. My to-do list will die without constant attention. But yet the idea kept nagging away at me so I knew I had to find out more. National Goof Off Day National Goof Off Day is a day to do something, do anything, except what you are supposed to do. It is a day that is ok to procrastinate and avoid all the musts, shoulds, and needs. Let's qualify this – nothing illegal, nothing that would get you fired or divorced, nothing dangerous or would draw you away from your values and your faith. This is a day to take a deep breath and enjoy something. Feed your spirit. Play like a child again. Researchers have found that a little goofing off is actually good for you as it relieves stress and increases productivity. A silly break enhances creativity, problem solving, … [Read more...]